Tuesday 31 July 2018

MY INDIAN AIRLINES MEMORIES

The letter arrived at my friend, Anjana Sunderason's house. We had both applied from her house after seeing an advertisement in the Femina magazine. By this time I had already applied to study medicine at the Poona Medical College. My father tested me by saying that I would be posted for five years at the border. I was ready to go through that because I was intent in doing research. I wanted to do research on a woman's periodic menstrual problem and on Parkinson's disease.


BANGLADESH WAR - 1971 - I had to withdrew the following piece from my facebook post because some people got enraged and commented adversely on my post. I wrote on my timeline, my personal space but some public did not understand a personal reaction.

1971 Bangladesh war. Indira Gandhi gifts 2 Fokker Friendship air crafts to newly formed  Bangladesh. I was working for Indian Airlines. Some Bangladeshi pilots were being brought to India for further training. I was in such a flight when 2 men were on board from Bangladesh. Two prospective pilots to be trained in India to captain the Fokker Friendship aircraft. After the usual service was over, I was in the galley putting away things to prepare for landing and my co-hostess was clearing the cabin. In walks this gentleman (presumably) and makes a comment so atrocious that I go bloody red and purple. The gist of it is this that since I was working as an air hostess I was available! He was so sure of himself that he did not dream of anything opposing his proposal. He was some Rehman. I was blessed too young to handle such a situation and just ran to the cockpit crying. The co-pilot of my flight went out to make this new neighbour aware about some rules and cultural values of India, I guess. Things were calmer till we landed. It is an indelible experience in my life. After that I have been to Dacca on several flights but I never was interested to know the country. I still hold the same viewpoint. Forgive me if I hurt anyone's feelings.


12/3/2019
Initially most of my flights were early in the morning. That means I could hear the chug-chug of the Indian Airlines ambassador car turning from the Lansdowne Road towards my home at around 4/30 am. That meant I got up at 3.30 am, got ready, painted myself and was ready to go for my duty. My mom and dad always got up with me and would have a cup of tea and biscuits for me to have before I departed. So be it. Parents are like that, isn't it?
Well, one morning, as usual I got into the car next to the driver in the front seat I glanced at the back. There were already three of the flight crew seated - two pilots and a flight attendant or air hostess or steward. I preferred sitting next to the driver in the front and by now most of the crew knew this. So as I was usually the last to be picked and the first to be dropped, this place was more or less mine. Hehehe! 


On the way to the airport one of the pilots asked me what was my full name. I was known as C.Deb in the airlines. I answered my first name was Chitralekha .  The pilot asking me turned out to be the son of the author, Bhagwati Charan Verma, who had written the famous novel in Hindi named 'Chitralekha'. It was also made into a movie - twice. The above is an image of the film and its cast - Meena Kumari, Pradeep Kumar and Ashok Kumar. I still remember the pilot was C.P.S Verma. I was flattered and honoured like a silly teenager. Blushing red, purple and God knows what other colours. 
I suddenly remembered this incident as I was listening to old songs on FM Gold and they played one of the songs from this film. 
I wonder whether Captain Verma is still around. Hope he gets to read this or hear about this post of mine. Thank you, Captain. It was a morale booster for the day. Silly, I know. But then what can you tell a too young girl/air hostess? 

Friday 20 July 2018

GOD GIVES BACK A THOUSAND-FOLD

20/7/2018
I just remembered something from the past, something that may seem very trivial but I realised of great value.
This was sometime in '89. I was supposed to fly off to Leh in Ladakh from Delhi. The flights got cancelled two days consecutively due to bad weather and then on the third morning my employers sent me to the Srinagar resort and from there to take a chance once more. Well there I was in our company boathouse waiting for the weather to clear and I met a young girl here. She was also an employee and her most important job was to take those guests who booked for treks, on a trans-himalayan trek from Kashmir to Ladakh, a seventeen-day trek. Whew! I was still stuck in Srinagar the day she was leaving with her troup. I had nothing to give her as a parting gift except the biggest size Cadburys chocolate, which I had purchased the evening before. She loved it and as most of us know chocolates are very important when on such treks. 
The weather cleared a couple of days later and I flew off to my destination to look after the Leh resort. I got busy with my work. I loved it. The guests came here for 3 days and then flew off to other resorts in Pahalgam or bandhavgarh or Nepal. So there was a constant arrival and departure, and I also got busy helping the arrivals to acclimatise etc. In this melee there were three ladies from East Germany. I got to know them a little better than the rest. May be they too felt at ease with me, so we got talking. I learned they were potato farmers from East Germany. This was before the 'Berlin wall fall'. All of them had families back home but had saved to make this 'ladies only' trip. In one of our conversations, speaking about families I mentioned my eldest son was not exactly normal and that he could not study like my other normal kids. These ladies got concerned and shared some facts about how they had facilities in their country for such children. they gave me some of their leaflets and promised to send me more details once they reached home.  And they gave me a huge home-made fudge the day they left!!!! Oh me! It was so delicious, full of all sorts of nuts and whatnot! It seems the ladies carried some of these home-made fudge with them, just in case they ran short of food during their travel.  God gave me so much in return for the little unselfish parting gift I did in Srinagar! God is great. I shared it with my colleagues and it lasted for days - it was so big!
One other thing is that in those days East Germany had government facilities for differently abled children.  And yes the ladies did send me more details and other educational tips by post. The tips helped me immensely. Thank you, dear ladies from East Germany.

Thursday 19 July 2018

CANCER -2

22/02/2018
I came back from AIIMS. Honestly I am so mortified with the invasive checks the doctors do. It is humiliating. I know the medics mean well but I screamed today when the invasion was into my a..e!!!!!!!!!!! Sorry doctor it was just so much and no more.  Please God I just wish to live normally and laugh and drink and eat to glory come. Is it possible in this world of yours? And I am so sick of the high expenses that goes with this ailment. Why? Why go beyond your means just to treat a cancer patient, who is sure to pop off in a few days time? Why stretch and do the impossible and deny the patient some good times with the family and friends? Am i wrong in my thinking? I am so tired of the children reminding me I have cancer and I should not eat or enjoy anything because it might aggravate the condition. Hell with it! I have known through my experience that it is best to be in a joyous mood. There is no better medicine than joy. Look at all the 'laughing clubs' spread throughout the country. we all seek joy and that keeps us healthy, wealthy and wise. So long this joy does not in any way harm or bring injury to another human being.

20/7/2018
Today I want to tell all of you who are reading my blogs - please pay attention. If you are suffering from any sort of cancer or know anyone who has cancer, the following routine must be adhered to - 
1. Drink a glass/tumbler of hot water with a full lemon squeezed in with the lemon rinds in it, first thing in the morning. 
2. Do not touch sugar or sweets of any kind. Do not eat mangoes and bananas, but have other fruits, especially citric.
3. Have apricots and more importantly the nut inside its kernel. Yes you need to crack open the kernel. That nut is your medicine. 
4. Cow urine (Go-mutra)is another must. Either get the liquid form or the tablet form. The liquid form must be had like this - two caps full of Go-mutra and equal amount of hot water. And tablets like two each time. Twice in a day before lunch and dinner. Continue for a couple of months and then give it a gap for a fortnight. 
5. Drink only green tea. Twice day or more.
6. Milk and other dairy products do more harm than good. 
7. Deep breathing, inhaling oxygen and exhaling carbon dioxide with gusto is another must.
8. Be out in the sun and rain, look up to the sky, watch the birds, listen to the breeze, love the swaying trees. Be happy. Be joyous. 

If anyone has anything to add this please do so, I shall be grateful.
And yes, try and keep a regular profile of yourself. I am doing so. I am having my photo snapped (I do not have selfie) at certain intervals to see the change in me, if any. A photographic comparison gives you a solid boost. Rest is up to our Maker. My wish is to go laughing. 
Thank you.

4/1/2019
Happy New Year!
Today I will share a Sanskrit mantra that cures cancer. Open the site and let the mantra be chanted. Listen with total attention. Pronounce along with the chanting if you can or else just pay attention. Soon you should be able to pronounce the mantra. Here is the website - Narayaneem Dasakam 8, Sloka 13, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q_fPEQ4Wu3U

Another mantra is - OM SWAMI VIRAM BABABHASSA HUM PHAT
Good luck.

Monday 9 July 2018

Mamoni, Ghosh and Bose households - memories. 2

Today it will be a short one.
Mamoni used to sing this song quite often - Chorono dhorite diyogo amaare, Niyona niyona shoraye.
I do not know what impression she left in me but I still feel her presence even today.
She was a loving person.
Mamoni used to sing along with her wrestling(yes wrestling). Talk about that later.
Today is her birth centenary, and her father's death anniversary.
Mamoni stopped singing when Ashok, my ex and late husband was due to be presented to the world. The singing puts a stress on the abdomen and the child may be delivered before her/his due date. 
I do not think Mamoni touched her harmonium after that. Dwarkin harmonium.
But she sang. Sang to put the grandchildren to sleep. Or at other times to keep her equilibrium.
That lady went through a lot. Can't ever spill out to anyone. Ava Rani Bose, eldest daughter of Byamacharya Bishnu Charan Ghosh, was unique.
I come from a family where everyone reach the height of education. But Mamoni had just done her eight standard education but her knowledge and wisdom could surpass anyone, even today.
Hats off to Ava Rani Bose, my ex and late mother-in-law. God bless your soul. Love you.